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The Stuff That Really Matters

There’s a soft, brown cotton sweater hanging on a hook in my closet that I slip on when I wake. Mornings can sometimes be chilly in L.A., and even though I’m Minnesota born and bred, I’ve lived in California so long that 60 degrees can seem downright freezing.

The sweater was worn by my dear friend Elaine. She died of ovarian cancer in 1999, and I think of her every morning I put it on. It’s a piece of clothing that probably didn’t hold much significance to her when she was alive, but it’s become something I treasure.

When

August 24, 2025

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The Strongest Woman I’ve Ever Known

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“What’s up, Chicken Butt?”

I don’t know the origin of this greeting – probably from some childhood game. But for me, it was how I began every phone conversation with my Mom. We spoke nearly every day. Sometimes I’d call on my morning hike and sometimes when I was making dinner. The conversations weren’t necessarily long or deep, but I loved the ritual — knowing what she ate, what she was watching on tv, how many card games of 500 she had won, what the weather was like.

There are also specific phone conversations I recall — whenever I

July 23, 2025

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Fear: How To Turn On The Light

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It was the worst thing to be asked. We dreaded it. We argued over it. But more than anything, my siblings and I feared it. The basement. Specifically, being asked to go into the furnace room to get anything out of the freezer after dinner. In the dark.

If you didn’t grow up in the midwest, you might need some perspective here. First, basements are the norm in my native state of Minnesota. Ours was almost completely finished off with knotty pine paneling and a linoleum floor. At one point, we even had a ping pong table (bought by

April 30, 2024

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The Triple Threat

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It’s that time of year. As the holidays wind down and the New Year is almost upon us, the triple threat of merry, melancholy and malaise have struck once again. And although the sun is mostly shining here in California, I wake in the morning sensing a seasonal weightiness in the air.

I recall December mornings in Minnesota. Nowhere else will you experience pitch black in combination with bracing cold and deafening quiet. One morning, more than a couple of decades ago, I woke early, my flannel nightgown sewn by my Mom twisted around my legs. Throwing back the covers

December 30, 2023

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Listening To My Elders

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One of my best friends is Julia Louis-Dreyfus.

Well, I guess I should clarify. I’m pretty sure that we SHOULD be best friends. Or at least that we WOULD be best friends, if we ever met.

Who didn’t love her on Seinfeld or The New Adventures of Old Christine? She’s brilliant on Veep. I can’t wait to see her latest feature film, You Hurt My Feelings. And if you haven’t seen her Mark Twain Prize acceptance speech, you have to check it out here.

But her wonderful gifts as an actor aren’t what convinced

August 21, 2023

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I Feel Like School Starts Tomorrow

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I’m thinking about my carefree 12-year old self this Labor Day weekend and feeling a bit of adult melancholy. What happened to those empty summer days we had ahead of us just three months ago? So many plans – dreams of pool-side drinks and long hikes and naps dancing in my head.

But now, it’s all over. My head is full of phrases like, “You better get busy” and a slight sense of dread.

Emotional Calendar

Labor Day might be bringing up these feelings for you, too. There’s an emotional calendar to our lives and maybe, like me, you

September 2, 2019

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Baby, It’s Cold Outside

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My team lost. And I am still thinking about it two years later.

I actually cried stone-cold sober tears over the loss, the third time in the past two decades (The tally now stands at sports tears shed in 2009, 2016 and 2018 to be exact).

For those of you who love a team, you know the pain.

If you’re a college basketball fan, March Madness provides its own special pain. 63 out of 64 teams will will ultimately end their season in defeat. Even though we’re in basketball season, I’m still stuck on footballs, touchdown passes and field

March 29, 2018

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Here’s to an Uncomfortable 2018!

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The year will be remembered (among other things) as the year I was on the Kiwanis speaking circuit. If you didn’t grow up in the midwest or you aren’t of a ‘certain age,’ you might be saying, “What’s a Kiwanis?”

Well, in very simple terms, Kiwanis is a club where professional folks come together for a meal, listen to a speaker, and encourage social and charitable contributions to the community.

But if you have ever attended a Kiwanis meeting, you know it is so much more than that dry description. These people are fierce – fierce in their

January 1, 2018

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Walking the Emmy Red Carpet: A Do-It-Yourself Guide

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Walking the Emmy Red Carpet: A Do-It-Yourself Guide

When I was a kid growing up in Minnesota, televised awards shows were appointment viewing. The Oscars were King, but the Emmys took a close second. At nine years old, I never imagined I would actually get to GO to one of these events.

My good friend Paul is actually nominated for an Emmy this year (yay Paul!) and he asked me to be his date.

Mmmmm. Well, I guess I could do that.

But, what to wear? How should I do my make-up? What about shoes? My hair? The list of questions

September 13, 2017

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